A Season of Small Joys: How Self-Gifting Can Transform Your Holidays
For the last seven years, my partner and I have shared a little tradition that feels like pure magic—starting December 1st, we exchange a small gift every day until Christmas Eve. 🎁 Each morning, there’s a tiny surprise waiting, reminding us of the joy in life’s smallest treasures. It’s not about the gifts themselves but the thought behind them—the careful choice of something meaningful, playful, or practical.
The year we skipped it? Christmas just didn’t feel the same. This simple ritual has become one of my favorite ways to slow down and soak up the season together, one thoughtful moment at a time.
But here’s the thing: you don’t need a partner to make this kind of magic. This year, I’m inviting you to start your own tradition—whether it’s with a loved one, a friend, or the most important person in your life: you.
In a season so often consumed by doing for others, we can forget to include ourselves in the equation. But self-gifting isn’t selfish—it’s a way to honor your needs, your dreams, and the quiet moments that bring you joy. Whether it’s a small treat or an experience you’ve been longing for, these gifts become little acts of self-love that brighten each day.
And if you’re worried about the budget, don’t be. Self-gifting isn’t about splurging; it’s about intentionality. A cup of your favorite coffee, a handwritten note to yourself, or even setting aside time to revisit a beloved holiday movie can all count as gifts.
Starting Your Own Tradition
Here’s how you can embrace the spirit of daily gifting—no matter your circumstances:
1. The Solo Advent Calendar
Channel your inner conscious maximalist and create a custom advent calendar just for you. Maximalism isn’t about excess—it’s about curating your life with intention and joy. Fill your calendar with your favorite small pleasures: a piece of chocolate, a tiny candle, or a pocket-sized notebook to jot down your thoughts. Every morning becomes a celebration of you.
2. Buddy Up
If you have a close friend or family member who shares your love of little moments, suggest starting a gift exchange together. It doesn’t have to be daily—even once a week leading up to Christmas can be just as special. Take inspiration from maximalism by making the experience vibrant—wrap the gifts with bold colors or add a fun theme for each week.
3. Love Notes to Yourself
Write a series of notes filled with affirmations, memories you cherish, or wishes for the new year. Open one each day and let those words fill your cup. Conscious maximalism teaches us that words can hold as much power as physical gifts, turning something simple into a meaningful ritual.
4. Experiences as Gifts
A gift doesn’t have to be tangible. Treat yourself to a solo date: a walk through the lights at your local park, a day baking cookies, or a cozy night curled up with your favorite book and a festive mocktail. Bring in maximalist touches—wear your coziest robe, light all your favorite candles, and embrace the moment fully.
Little Moments, Big Impact
These daily surprises can remind us to pause and appreciate the beauty in our lives, whether it’s shared with someone else or savoured alone. And that’s the heart of the holiday season—it’s not about big gestures or expensive plans. It’s about the little moments that make you smile, the traditions that make the season yours, and the joy that bubbles up when you least expect it.
Self-gifting through a lens of conscious maximalism brings deeper meaning to your holiday season. By embracing bold, intentional choices, you’re not just giving gifts—you’re creating a lifestyle that celebrates abundance in mindfulness, joy, and creativity.
So, how will you make the holidays special this year? Whether it’s a tradition you already love or one you’re creating for yourself, I’d love to hear about it. Let’s celebrate the magic in the small things—together.